Monday, September 30, 2013

5 THINGS JUDGMENTS DO

Hurt other people. This might not always happen. If the person never finds out what you said, you're in the clear, right? Not necessarily. Things have a way of coming back and hurting people in unexpected ways. Think about what you say. Would you say that to his/her face? If not, it's probably best left unsaid (and un-thought!).

 Make you feel worse about you. When you judge others (or, at least, when I do), you feel bad afterward. You don't feel good about yourself. You might get a tiny rush from the judgments, but, ultimately, you feel guilty. You think you're a bad person for casting such harsh judgments on others. You bring yourself down when you bring others down. 

Perpetuate stereotypes. The more judgments out there in the world, the more stereotypes get formed and people are trying to live up to (or avoid) the ideas of what they are "supposed" to be. Whether stereotypes are based on race, gender, spirituality, ethnicity, appearance, or any other attribute, they are bad news. They force people (including you!) to feel as if there are standards they must meet instead of living a free, happy life. Don't be a part of perpetuating stereotypes with your own judgments.

 Put negativity into the world. No matter what you way you rationalize your judgments, they are not bringing anything good into the world. They bring others down. They bring you down. They make the world a more unhappy place. Can you imagine if we were all accepting and loving of one another? Can you imagine what the world would be like if we tried to understand other people rather than judging them? 

Encourage you to judge yourself. If you're judging others, you're probably judging yourself pretty harshly as well. As for me, I know this is the case. For example, I judge what other people wear, and, as a consequence, I'm extremely concerned with what I wear. I spend quite a lot of time on my clothing and appearance and I bet I would do this less if I didn't judge others so harshly.

GOD BLESS YOU

4 REASONS WE JUDGE OTHERS

We are insecure. This is the main reason we judge. When we are insecure and/or unhappy with who we are, we try to put other people down. Though it doesn't usually build us up when we put others down, we do it anyway. We want to feel good by making others feel bad.

 We are scared. Often, when we're scared or intimated by other people, we'll put them down. Coworkers band together and make fun of their boss (see The Office). Two women see a prettier woman as a threat and they make fun of her outfit. When people are scared, they try to feel better by putting others down. We also may fear those who are different from us and may judge them just because they are unlike us. 

We are lonely. As I mentioned before, there is a bonding element that goes along with judging others. When you are lonely, you might use judgments to bond with other people, but these bonds are based on negativity. The bonds you have based on judging others are superficial and are not likely to contain true substance. 

We are seeking change.When we want our own lives to be different, we are quick to judge the lives of others. For example, if someone wants to be in a committed relationship and his friend gets engaged, he might whisper, "Oh, that girl is so not right for him. I don't know why they're getting married." If we are jealous of others' changing lives we are likely to make quick judgments.

HOW DEMONS ENTER

There are a variety of ways and means in which demons can enter people, and I list some of the following: 1. Hereditary The Scripture says that the iniquity of the fathers shall be visited on the children 'to the third and fourth generation' (Exodus 20:5). In the occult or other sinful practices, the spirits of sin from the ancestors can enter subsequent generations until there is true repentance and the commanding of that demon to go.

That generation can be afflicted even though the person has turned their heart to Jesus Christ. That is why the gift of discernment and deliverance ministry is needed in the body of Christ. It is important to remember that ... 'Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us (for it is written, "Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree").' (Galatians 3: I 3) It is necessary to appropriate what Jesus has done.

People therefore should be encouraged to exercise their will and really believe that they have been delivered from the curse of the law. In this way, authority can be taken over familiar or hereditary spirits which have been following them, but it is necessary for them to exercise their will as these are cut off, and to realize that God has really set them free. Spirits that can enter as a result of hereditary bondages can be rejection, spirits of grief and spirits of memory.

Faith walk

Our walk with Jesus Christ is not an intellectual walk, but the walk is an act of faith, and we must appropriate by faith those things which Jesus has already done for us.

2. Disobedience on the Part of Parents Where the parents, particularly the father, do not follow Jesus Christ. In this instance, the home is open to demonic attack and the children can grow up in rebellion. If there is no teaching of the Word in the home, then there are no absolute values, and as the children grow up there is nothing to prevent them entering into all kinds of sexual and other practices which, in turn, bring demons. Parents who encourage their children to smoke or drink can cause them to become addicted to these habits which in turn can become demonic.

3. Friction Between Parents Here again, because the spirit of fear has been allowed to enter into the marriage, young children can be filled with fear and demons of fear can enter them, followed by physical afflictions, such as asthma

4. Molesting of Children by Parents The increasingly common practice of the molesting of children by their fathers allows demon activity to enter. When the child grows old enough to realize what has happened, he or she will often remain unforgiving and this in turn brings in spirits of unforgiveness.

5. From the Womb On many occasions, demons enter during pregnancy or at birth. Demons can easily enter a foetus where there is shock, fear or trauma on the part of the mother, particularly where there is disagreement between the parents. I recently prayed for a pastor who had experienced a major problem with violence and lust and the demon which finally manifested clearly entered during pregnancy. The parents were divorced a few years after the child was born but the damage had been done, and the child had carried the spirits of violence and lust through life to middle age before he was delivered. Spirits of rejection or abortion often enter during pregnancy where the mother feels rejected or rejects the child. This is particularly true if the mother desires to abort the child. On one occasion I prayed for a young man who had been badly whipped by his mother at seven before she went into a mental hospital. He felt hurt and rejected. His school mates called him names. However, as a result of prayer and as he forgave his mother, he was totally released from this spirit and healed. These spirits can enter the child before birth and remain with it during its life. Once the spirit of rejection has entered it can bring with it many other spirits. This area must often be searched out. It is tremendously helpful when the mother is a believer because when she has repented from the past sin, the act of repentance seems to cut off the demon spirit within the child or young adult. However, whether or not the mother is alive or a believer that demon can still be made to leave by effectual fervent prayer and repentance. Asking the person to quote from Ephesians 1:6, namely that they are accepted in the beloved and having them really say these words and confess them with their mouth and believe it in their heart can be a tremendous form of deliverance. As they confess these words and believe them, we can then lead them to confess that they accept themselves. This then breaks the hold of rejection. It is also important to remember the Scripture in John's Gospel: `If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.' (John 20:23) This Scripture has a powerful meaning in this area; namely if we retain the sins of others then they will affect us but if we will let them go they will lose their power over us. These spirits may lie dormant for many years before they finally manifest, but in today's circumstances with a major breakdown of marriages and people living together and bearing children, we must expect a great outpouring of demonic activity among our young people.

6. Through Sin We have already mentioned James 1:14, which says: 'But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed.' Verse 15 goes on to say: 'Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full grown, brings forth death.' I have come to believe that behind every sin there is a spirit, and if we continue with the sin then we open ourselves to a spirit. This is true of masturbation, lust, and many other forms of activity which grow to a point of binding us. Let us listen to what Jesus says: 'But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. And if your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.' (Matthew 5:28, 29) We must be very careful that we do not allow spirits to enter through the eye gate, or the ear gate, by allowing our thought life to be out of order. As it becomes out of order, then we allow the spiritual forces to enter. This is why Jesus made the point that simply by looking upon a woman with a desire to commit adultery then we in fact commit adultery in heart. If we allow the spirit of adultery to enter our heart, we have already given ground to the enemy hence we are told by Paul: 'Casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.' (2 Corinthians 10:5) We must keep our thought life and our attitudes pure and yield all our members as instruments of righteousness.

7. Sowing and Reaping 'Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.' (Galatians 6:7, 8) This is an inexorable principle of God's laws. Many people are puzzled when they come to Jesus Christ as to why they still have problems with their children. Those problems were sown in the earlier life before the parents came to Jesus Christ and the principle of reaping must be fully worked out. The time of reaping can only be shortened as we yield more and more to Jesus Christ. Demonic activity has often occurred because of the sowing which is taking place and hence the need for discernment and expulsion of the demons.

8. Satan is a Legalist Ephesians 4:27 tells us: 'nor give place to the devil.' As we give place to the devil in our lives, he enters and takes over the ground that should be possessed by the Holy Spirit. This is a great cause of demonic activity, hence
we should walk holy and justly and without blame before God.

9. Occultic Involvement As we have discussed elsewhere, previous or current occultic involvement on our part or on the part of our previous generations will certainly give entry to demon activities.

10. Possessions Sometimes we possess occultic objects in our home, and this is an abomination in the eyes of God: 'Nor shall you bring an abomination into your house, lest you be doomed to destruction like it; but you shall utterly detest it and utterly abhor it, for it is an accursed thing.' (Deuteronomy 7:26) We should be particularly aware of any eastern objects or carvings with any occultic significance. Similarly, this involvement in any area of the occult such as hypnotism, ouija boards and all the other matters referred to in Appendix 1, can give entry to demonic activity.

11. General Rejection Apart from rejection through parents there can be a sense of general rejection which afflicts people. This can sometimes occur through marriage breakdowns and it requires prayer on the part of the partner who is wronged to bring the other partner back to the Lord. We are told by Jesus to love our enemies, bless those who curse us and do good to those who hate us. `But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you.' (Matthew 5:44) When people pray a blessing for those who have wronged them by taking away their husband or wife to live with them then the curse is reversed and God's love flows into that situation causing confusion on the part of the spirits involved. As a blessing is prayed for that person, the spirit of torment, which is coming from him or her and afflicting the innocent spouse, retires in confusion and God's Spirit of love comes through the person who is praying with belief. In this way the spirits which have caused the breakup of the marriage often depart and reconciliation takes place.

12. Shock Traumas such as death or the breakdown of marriage, or an accident, can often allow demons to enter. Satan is no respecter of persons and will take every opportunity to attack. Frequently I have found that in the split second just prior to an accident, the spirit of fear has entered the person, followed by shock, and then a host of other demon powers. In counselling, it is always wise to go back on any particular trauma which has occurred in a person's life, and it is often found to be the entry point of demonic activity. In the case of death, where people not only are subject to grief but kiss or touch dead people, the spirits can be transferred in that way. After prayer for deliverance it is usually good to pray for the healing of the memories.

13. Multiple Personality Disorders We quite frequently find that as a result of satanic ritual abuse or severe prolonged trauma in childhood or severe shock, that various personalities can manifest within the one person. During the past 20 years it has become fashionable to refer to these entities as fractured parts of a person's original personality. The theory is that when a person undergoes such trauma, that parts of their personality split off and these parts have to be led back to Jesus and the person reintegrated as a whole. My own experience has been quite different. The traumatised person retreats into their shell and these other personalities, which in my view are demons, begin to manifest. They will claim that they are the real person or that they own the person and will often denigrate the real person. Sometimes they will even say that they are 'from below'. In my view they are nothing but demons. One of the most common of these demons is the spirit of memories. As ministry takes place, memories which have been suppressed by this spirit come back to the person's recollection. This spirit often manifests with the voice of a little child. To bring a person who suffers from multiple personality disorders to a lasting healing usually requires much patience and love over a considerable time. You have to gain their trust. This is the most difficult part because their trust in other people has been so damaged as a result of their traumatic experiences. As their trust in you grows, so their true personality begins to manifest and over a period of time they are able to assert their authority in Jesus Christ and resist these demonic entities. The true personality comes to the top, so to speak, and they are able to gain victory over Satan.

The importance of gaining the person's trust Initially they will have considerable difficulty in believing that anybody genuinely loves them or can be trusted. However, as you demonstrate the love of God over an extended period of time, this love heals their personality and they begin to return to being a normal person. There is no 'quick fix' in this situation. It is only as their true personality appears to grow and flower that the demonic entities will lose their authority and finally disappear. The key, therefore, to the deliverance of such people is to help them to recover their full trust and love in others.

Sometimes these people will relate well to their own age group, particularly if they are younger, but then when they are in touch with an older person who represents authority, then their true personality is subordinated to the demonic power which rises up. That is why we require so much patience to ensure that their true personality asserts itself as love and trust grows. While it is vital that the person to be delivered must have love and trust in the counsellor, nevertheless, the whole purpose of the exercise is for them to develop their love and trust in God through Jesus Christ. I believe the primary reason why the ministry of Jesus Christ was so effective in deliverance was the fact that those around Him immediately sensed the mighty love of God flowing through Him. As this love touched them, then they were open to deliverance. We must be careful in these cases to ensure that the counsellees in fact place their full love, hope and trust in Jesus Christ. To pray for them without this being the case can well be premature. Hence full deliverance will not be effected. As always, the key to deliverance is true repentance. However, this may require a lot of love, time and tenderness to encourage a person to come to that point of true
repentance so that they can, with the help of the Holy Spirit, forgive those who have hurt and damaged them and thus regain their full health and strength and allow their true personality to assert itself.

14. Transference From Other

People It is very easy for demons to be transferred. In the act of sexual intercourse outside of marriage, demonic activity can occur readily as demons are transferred from one body to another. In the case of Christian marriage, this should not occur if both parties are fully committed to Jesus Christ, but where one party is not committed, the other needs to know the sanctifying power of the blood of Jesus in order to retain protection in those circumstances.

15. A Dominating Personality

In a business or church, or similar situations, a dominating personality will often cause a spirit to be transferred to other people. Sometimes we find that subordinates to a person in authority, whether it be in a business or church, will dress alike and look alike in order to ape the person in charge. It often takes the form of having the same type of haircut etc., and wearing the same type of clothes. This opens these people to a transference of spirits from those whom they are copying. Again, when we are ministering in the deliverance ministry, we need to know the authority of Jesus in our life, otherwise demons may seek to enter us from the person to whom we are ministering. If they do attack us, then we need to know the authority of Jesus in order to resist them. In particular, this means keeping a wholesome mind when we are ministering to persons of the other sex. When we are doing so always ensure that there is another person of that sex with you. A man should never minister alone to a woman, or vice versa. Again, a woman or man may be subject to a matriarchal spirit from their mother or a patriarchal spirit from their father as a result of an unhealthy domination by either of the parents over their children. We will be discussing this later in this book.

16. Through Entering Buildings

Sometimes a building has been used for immoral purposes, or some evil action, and I have seen cases where children have entered such a place, or even adults, and they have been attacked by demons without realizing it. Their personality has changed and they have needed deliverance.

17. Obsession

This can become a very powerful demon. I have found this to be so. I can recall on one occasion praying for a man during a very
lengthy deliverance. Finally the Holy Spirit revealed that he had a demon of obsession to which were attached many other demons. It had entered him at the age of 14, when he was at boarding school. He had been wrongly accused one night and all the boys in the dormitory turned on him and accused him. He wept himself to sleep. At that time a spirit of rejection entered him and finally it became an obsession. I found that as the power of the Holy Spirit came upon me and I pointed at him he would literally somersault in the air. The Holy Spirit indicated that a demon was attached to the man's leg or neck, or other part of the body, and as I pointed at him from a distance, he left the floor and either somersaulted or twisted violently in the air as the spirit left him. It was one of the most powerful demonstrations I have ever seen of the power of the Holy Spirit operating through me. As these demons came out, the noise was positively frightening, until we finally came to the demon of obsession and he left with a loud noise.

18. Curses

Curses can result in major demonic activity and it can affect generations of families.
(a) Mental and emotional breakdown.
(b) Repeated or chronic sicknesses (especially without clear medical diagnosis).
(c) Repeated miscarriages or related female problems. (d) Breakdown of marriage — family alienation.
(e) Continuing financial insufficiency (especially where the income appears sufficient).
(f) Accident prone people. You can clearly see from Scripture that there are several sources of curses as follows:

From God Himself

For example, in Deuteronomy chapter 27:15-26 there are 12 curses pronounced for the breaking of the law of Moses. Some of the curses referred to in these verses are against those who make carved images, who treat their father or mother with contempt, who move their neighbour's landmark, who make the blind to wander off the road, who perverts justice due to the stranger, fatherless and widow, who lies with his father's wife, who lies for sexual purposes with any kind of animal, who lies for sexual purposes with his sister, daughter of his father or the daughter of his mother, who lies for sexual purposes with his mother-in-law, who attacks his neighbour secretly, takes a bribe to slay an innocent person and does not conform to all the Words of this Law. A summary of the curses from Deuteronomy 28:16-68
(1) You will be cursed in the city and country.
(2) You will be cursed in your basket and your kneading bowl.
(3) The fruit of your body and produce of your land, the increase of your cattle and the offspring of your flocks.
(4) You will have cursing, confusion, rebuke in all you set your hand to do until you are destroyed and perish.
(5) The plague will cling to you until God has consumed you from the land.
(6) Cursed when you come in and cursed when you go out.

DEMONS

Plan of Satan

Satan's plan is to defile the temple of God's Holy Spirit. One of the most effective ways to do so is through sexual immorality. When sexual intercourse takes place outside of marriage, strong spirits or demons of lust and perverted sex can pass from one body to another during the act of sexual intercourse. People then often find that they have desires which they cannot control and need to go from one person to another seeking sexual satisfaction. There are, of course, other ways in which the temple of the Holy Spirit can be defiled, for example, through the smoking habit and addiction to alcohol. In these and other ways Satan attacks our body, usually by placing the desire in our mind, and if we permit it to increase then we are faced with a situation that can go out of control.

God's Plan

When we come to a knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ, our minds should be renewed and we should receive the mind of Christ. In this way, our thought life and actions should be governed by the Holy Spirit. However, in my own experience, I find that many people, for reasons which will be discussed in this book, find great difficulty in controlling thought patterns and habits which, to say the least, are totally destructive and for this reason they need deliverance. This can apply equally to the Christian as well as to the non-Christian. God desires to dwell in us and to walk with us. `And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said: "I will dwell in them And walk among them. I will be their God, And they shall be my people." ' (2 Corinthians 6:16) God therefore requires us to walk in a holy way before Him. 'Because it is written, "Be holy, for I am holy." ' (1 Peter 1:16) Many Christians struggle to walk in true holiness but find great difficulty in doing so, often for reasons which they cannot understand. The purpose of this book will be to throw light on some of the reasons why these difficulties do exist.

Monday, September 23, 2013

OPEN YOUR EYES AND SEE

Before we get started please know that ALMOST all energy drinks and shots  are not good for your health.Since finding this out an finding this article, I came across one that is made of natural vitamins and nutrients that the body needs. I recommend it to all my friends and family. It’s called Tone Up Fuel and it’s great for working out. Gives you natural energy to exercise and reach your goals.Now when you were small and you thought of a monster, what feelings rose up? Fear? Terror? They literally turn dreams into nightmares.Once upon a time monsters were to be feared and to run away from, no one had the desire to be like one, times have changed.Why does society now entertain and embrace the idea of being monsters? Why do so many adopt the concept of evil being redefined as good? How could this be?The answer; Indoctrination AKA brainwashing through use of propaganda and other means of media to influence mankind and to reshape thinking. To a few the method used to market products such as Energy Drinks and various items to the public is done in a clever way to further an agenda. Monster Drink

It’s everywhere & I mean everywhere!

Today we are flooded with symbols and esoteric ideologies. The Term Monster is tobe/become aggressive, forceful or threatening.When one uses the word monster to describe a way of feeling “I feel like a monster” or “I am a monster” this suggests that one is being taken over by a force that out of their normal character.The illusion of power and feeling stronger like that of a Monster is appealing, not to mention the dark sinister side. This is the idea behind Monster beverages. Idea being pushed; Energy=go beyond your normal capabilities= just like a monster.On the can, we see that there are 3 “claw” like imprints. This is to give the impression of Monster claws or to create the letter “M”.So the public will associate the claws with that of a monster, and therefore theorizing that this drink will give them so much energy that they will feel like they can conquer anything like monsters. Seems like a cool and hip logo. Monsters and beasts seem to be the in thing now a days.

The Truth

The truth of these Claw like markings is esoteric. And has multiple meanings and if one is not aware of the hidden message or the true symbolical meaning behind them, then its easy for one to subconsciously accept monsters(evil creatures) as cool and hip and desire to have their “power” or “energy”..this is a tool of indoctrination or manipulation of man. The True meaning of Monster Drink The true meaning of the “claw” symbols. Take a look at this Chart below…Take note of the highlighted Alphabet/Number. This is the supposed “claw” markings on Monster’s Energy Drink.This is the Hebrew/Greek Alphabet chart. The Hebrew and Greek alphabet does not have separate characters or alphabets for numbers and letters. Letters are also used as numbers. So each letter is a numerical value. The Hebrew equivalent of our “w” is the letter “vav” or “waw”. The numerical value of vav is 6. So Therefore the claw marks on the can are actually a clever, fancy Representation of the Hebrew Numbers 666.

THE APOSTASY

The apostle Paul, in his second letter to the Thessalonians, foretold the great apostasy which would result in the establishment of the papal power. He declared that the day of Christ should not come, “except there come a falling away first, and that man of sin be revealed, the son of perdition; who opposeth and exalteth himself above all that is called God, or that is worshiped; so that he as God sitteth in the temple of God, showing himself that he is God.” [2 Thessalonians 2:3, 4, 7.] And furthermore, the apostle warns his brethren that “the mystery of iniquity doth already work.” [2 Thessalonians 2:3, 4, 7.] Even at that early date he saw, creeping into the church, errors that would prepare the way for the development of the papacy.
Little by little, at first in stealth and silence, and then more openly as it increased in strength and gained control of the minds of men, the mystery of iniquity carried forward its deceptive and blasphemous work. Almost imperceptibly the customs of heathenism found their way into the Christian church. The spirit of compromise and conformity was restrained for a time by the fierce persecutions which the church endured under paganism. But as persecution ceased, and Christianity entered the courts and palaces of kings, she laid aside the humble simplicity of Christ and his apostles for the pomp and pride of pagan priests and rulers; and in place of the requirements of God, she substituted human theories and traditions. The nominal conversion of Constantine, in the early part of the fourth century, caused great rejoicing; and the world, cloaked with a form of righteousness, walked into the church. Now the work of corruption rapidly progressed. Paganism, while appearing to be vanquished, became the conqueror. Her spirit controlled the church. Her doctrines, ceremonies, and superstitions were incorporated into the faith and worship of the professed followers of Christ.
This compromise between paganism and Christianity resulted in the development of the “man of sin” foretold in prophecy as opposing and exalting himself above God. That gigantic system of false religion is a masterpiece of Satan’s power,—a monument of his efforts to seat himself upon the throne to rule the earth according to his will.
Satan once endeavored to form a compromise with Christ. He came to the Son of God in the wilderness of temptation, and, showing him all the kingdoms of the world and the glory of them, offered to give all into his hands if he would but acknowledge the supremacy of the prince of darkness. Christ rebuked the presumptuous tempter, and forced him to depart. But Satan meets with greater success in presenting the same temptations to man. To secure worldly gains and honors, the church was led to seek the favor and support of the great men of earth, and having thus rejected Christ, she was induced to yield allegiance to the representative of Satan,—the bishop of Rome.
It is one of the leading doctrines of Romanism that the pope is the visible head of the universal church of Christ, invested with supreme authority over bishops and pastors in all parts of the world. More than this, the pope has arrogated the very titles of Deity. He styles himself “Lord God the Pope,” assumes infallibility, and demands that all men pay him homage. Thus the same claim urged by Satan in the wilderness of temptation is still urged by him through the Church of Rome, and vast numbers are ready to yield him homage. GC88 50.3
But those who fear and reverence God meet this Heaven-daring assumption as Christ met the solicitations of the wily foe: “Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve.” [Luke 4:8.] God has never given a hint in his Word that he has appointed any man to be the head of the church. The doctrine of papal supremacy is directly opposed to the teachings of the Scriptures. The pope can have no power over Christ’s church except by usurpation.
Romanists have persisted in bringing against Protestants the charge of heresy, and willful separation from the true church. But these accusations apply rather to themselves. They are the ones who laid down the banner of Christ, and departed from “the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.” [Jude 3.]

Satan well knew that the Holy Scriptures would enable men to discern his deceptions and withstand his power. It was by the Word that even the Saviour of the world had resisted his attacks. At every assault, Christ presented the shield of eternal truth, saying, “It is written.” To every suggestion of the adversary, he opposed the wisdom and power of the Word. In order for Satan to maintain his sway over men, and establish the authority of the papal usurper, he must keep them in ignorance of the Scriptures. The Bible would exalt God, and place finite men in their true position; therefore its sacred truths must be concealed and suppressed. This logic was adopted by the Roman Church. For hundreds of years the circulation of the Bible was prohibited. The people were forbidden to read it or to have it in their houses, and unprincipled priests and prelates interpreted its teachings to sustain their pretensions. Thus the pope came to be almost universally acknowledged as the vicegerent of God on earth, endowed with authority over Church and State.
The detector of error having been removed, Satan worked according to his will. Prophecy had declared that the papacy was to “think to change times and laws.” [Daniel 7:25.] This work it was not slow to attempt. To afford converts from heathenism a substitute for the worship of idols, and thus to promote their nominal acceptance of Christianity, the adoration of images and relics was gradually introduced into the Christian worship. The decree of a general council [Second Council of Nice, A.D. 787.] finally established this system of idolatry. To complete the sacrilegious work, Rome presumed to expunge from the law of God the second commandment, forbidding image worship, and to divide the tenth commandment, in order to preserve the number.
The spirit of concession to paganism opened the way for a still further disregard of Heaven’s authority. Satan tampered with the fourth commandment also, and essayed to set aside the ancient Sabbath, the day which God had blessed and sanctified, [Genesis 2:2, 3.] and in its stead to exalt the festival observed by the heathen as “the venerable day of the sun.” This change was not at first attempted openly. In the first centuries the true Sabbath had been kept by all Christians. They were jealous for the honor of God, and, believing that his law is immutable, they zealously guarded the sacredness of its precepts. But with great subtlety, Satan worked through his agents to bring about his object. That the attention of the people might be called to the Sunday, it was made a festival in honor of the resurrection of Christ. Religious services were held upon it; yet it was regarded as a day of recreation, the Sabbath being still sacredly observed.
To prepare the way for the work which he designed to accomplish, Satan had led the Jews, before the advent of Christ, to load down the Sabbath with the most rigorous exactions, making its observance a burden. Now, taking advantage of the false light in which he had thus caused it to be regarded, he cast contempt upon it as a Jewish institution. While Christians continued to observe the Sunday as a joyous festival, he led them, in order to show their hatred of Judaism, to make the Sabbath a fast, a day of sadness and gloom.
In the early part of the fourth century, the emperor Constantine issued a decree making Sunday a public festival throughout the Roman Empire. [See appendix, note 1.] The day of the sun was reverenced by his pagan subjects, and was honored by Christians; it was the emperor’s policy to unite the conflicting interests of heathenism and Christianity. He was urged to do this by the bishops of the church, who, inspired by ambition, and thirst for power, perceived that if the same day was observed by both Christians and the heathen, it would promote the nominal acceptance of Christianity by pagans, and thus advance the power and glory of the church. But while Christians were gradually led to regard Sunday as possessing a degree of sacredness, they still held the true Sabbath as the holy of the Lord, and observed it in obedience to the fourth commandment.
The arch-deceiver had not completed his work. He was resolved to gather the Christian world under his banner, and to exercise his power through his vicegerent, the proud pontiff who claimed to be the representative of Christ. Through half-converted pagans, ambitious prelates, and world-loving churchmen, he accomplished his purpose. Vast councils were held, from time to time, in which the dignitaries of the church were convened from all the world. In nearly every council the Sabbath which God had instituted was pressed down a little lower, while the Sunday was correspondingly exalted. Thus the pagan festival came finally to be honored as a divine institution, while the Bible Sabbath was pronounced a relic of Judaism, and its observers were declared to be accursed.

The great apostate had succeeded in exalting himself “above all that is called God, or that is worshiped.” [2 Thessalonians 2:4.] He had dared to change the only precept of the divine law that unmistakably points all mankind to the true and living God. In the fourth commandment, God is revealed as the Creator of the heavens and the earth, and is thereby distinguished from all false gods. It was as a memorial of the work of creation that the seventh day was sanctified as a rest-day for man. It was designed to keep the living God ever before the minds of men as the source of being and the object of reverence and worship. Satan strives to turn men from their allegiance to God, and from rendering obedience to his law; therefore he directs his efforts especially against that commandment which points to God as the Creator.
Protestants now urge that the resurrection of Christ on Sunday made it the Christian Sabbath. But Scripture evidence is lacking. No such honor was given to the day by Christ or his apostles. The observance of Sunday as a Christian institution had its origin in that “mystery of lawlessness” [2 Thessalonians 2:7, Revised Version.] which, even in Paul’s day, had begun its work. Where and when did the Lord adopt this child of the papacy? What valid reason can be given for a change which the Scriptures do not sanction?

In the sixth century the papacy had become firmly established. Its seat of power was fixed in the imperial city, and the bishop of Rome was declared to be the head over the entire church. Paganism had given place to the papacy. The dragon had given to the beast “his power, and his seat, and great authority.” [Revelation 13:2; See appendix, note 2.] And now began the 1260 years of papal oppression foretold in the prophecies of Daniel and the Revelation. [Daniel 7:25; Revelation 13:5-7.] Christians were forced to choose, either to yield their integrity and accept the papal ceremonies and worship, or to wear away their lives in dungeons or suffer death by the rack, the fagot, or the headsman’s ax. Now were fulfilled the words of Jesus, “Ye shall be betrayed both by parents, and brethren, and kinsfolks, and friends; and some of you shall they cause to be put to death. And ye shall be hated of all men for my name’s sake.” [Luke 21:16, 17.] Persecution opened upon the faithful with greater fury than ever before, and the world became a vast battle-field. For hundreds of years the church of Christ found refuge in seclusion and obscurity. Thus says the prophet: “The woman fled into the wilderness, where she hath a place prepared of God, that they should feed her there a thousand two hundred and threescore days.” [Revelation 12:6.]

The accession of the Roman Church to power marked the beginning of the Dark Ages. As her power increased, the darkness deepened. Faith was transferred from Christ, the true foundation, to the pope of Rome. Instead of trusting in the Son of God for forgiveness of sins and for eternal salvation, the people looked to the pope, and to the priests and prelates to whom he delegated authority. They were taught that the pope was their earthly mediator, and that none could approach God except through him, and, further, that he stood in the place of God to them, and was therefore to be implicitly obeyed. A deviation from his requirements was sufficient cause for the severest punishment to be visited upon the bodies and souls of the offenders. Thus the minds of the people were turned away from God to fallible, erring, and cruel men, nay more, to the prince of darkness himself, who exercised his power through them. Sin was disguised in a garb of sanctity. When the Scriptures are suppressed, and man comes to regard himself as supreme, we need look only for fraud, deception, and debasing iniquity. With the elevation of human laws and traditions, was manifest the corruption that ever results from setting aside the law of God.
Those were days of peril for the church of Christ. The faithful standard-bearers were few indeed. Though the truth was not left without witnesses, yet at times it seemed that error and superstition would wholly prevail, and true religion would be banished from the earth. The gospel was lost sight of, but the forms of religion were multiplied, and the people were burdened with rigorous exactions.

They were taught not only to look to the pope as their mediator, but to trust to works of their own to atone for sin. Long pilgrimages, acts of penance, the worship of relics, the erection of churches, shrines, and altars, the payment of large sums to the church,—these and many similar acts were enjoined to appease the wrath of God or to secure his favor; as if God were like men, to be angered at trifles, or pacified by gifts or acts of penance!
Notwithstanding that vice prevailed, even among the leaders of the Romish Church, her influence seemed steadily to increase. About the close of the eighth century, papists put forth the claim that in the first ages of the church the bishops of Rome had possessed the same spiritual power which they now assumed. To establish this claim, some means must be employed to give it a show of authority; and this was readily suggested by the father of lies. Ancient writings were forged by monks. Decrees of councils before unheard of were discovered, establishing the universal supremacy of the pope from the earliest times. And a church that had rejected the truth, greedily accepted these deceptions.

The few faithful builders upon the true foundation [1 Corinthians 3:10, 11.] were perplexed and hindered, as the rubbish of false doctrine obstructed the work. Like the builders upon the wall of Jerusalem in Nehemiah’s day, some were ready to say, “The strength of the bearers of burdens is decayed, and there is much rubbish, so that we are not able to build.” [Nehemiah 4:10.] Wearied with the constant struggle against persecution, fraud, iniquity, and every other obstacle that Satan could devise to hinder their progress, some who had been faithful builders became disheartened; and for the sake of peace and security for their property and their lives they turned away from the true foundation. Others, undaunted by the opposition of their enemies, fearlessly declared, “Be not ye afraid of them; remember the Lord, which is great and terrible; [Nehemiah 4:14.] and they proceeded with the work, every one with his sword girded by his side. [Ephesians 6:17.]

The same spirit of hatred and opposition to the truth has inspired the enemies of God in every age, and the same vigilance and fidelity have been required in his servants. The words of Christ to the first disciples are applicable to his followers to the close of time: “What I say unto you I say unto all, Watch.” [Mark 13:37.]

The darkness seemed to grow more dense. Image worship became more general. Candles were burned before images, and prayers were offered to them. The most absurd and superstitious customs prevailed. The minds of men were so completely controlled by superstition that reason itself seemed to have lost her sway. While priests and bishops were themselves pleasure-loving, sensual, and corrupt, it could only be expected that the people who looked to them for guidance would be sunken in ignorance and vice.
Another step in papal assumption was taken, when, in the eleventh century, Pope Gregory VII. proclaimed the perfection of the Romish Church. Among the propositions which he put forth, was one declaring that the church had never erred, nor would it ever err, according to the Scriptures. But the Scripture proofs did not accompany the assertion. The proud pontiff next claimed the power to depose emperors, and declared that no sentence which he pronounced could be reversed by any one, but that it was his prerogative to reverse the decisions of all others.
A striking illustration of the tyrannical character of this advocate of infallibility was given in his treatment of the German emperor, Henry IV. For presuming to disregard the pope’s authority, this monarch was declared to be excommunicated and dethroned. Terrified by the desertion and threats of his own princes, who were encouraged in rebellion against him by the papal mandate, Henry felt the necessity of making his peace with Rome. In company with his wife and a faithful servant, he crossed the Alps in midwinter, that he might humble himself before the pope. Upon reaching the castle whither Gregory had withdrawn, he was conducted, without his guards, into an outer court, and there, in the severe cold of winter, with uncovered head and naked feet, and in a miserable dress, he awaited the pope’s permission to come into his presence. Not until he had continued three days fasting and making confession, did the pontiff condescend to grant him pardon. Even then it was only upon condition that the emperor should await the sanction of the pope before resuming the insignia or exercising the power of royalty. And Gregory, elated with his triumph, boasted that it was his duty “to pull down the pride of kings.”

How striking the contrast between the overbearing pride of this haughty pontiff and the meekness and gentleness of Christ, who represents himself as pleading at the door of the heart for admittance, that he may come in to bring pardon and peace, and who taught his disciples, “Whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant.” GC88 58.1
The advancing centuries witnessed a constant increase of error in the doctrines put forth from Rome. Even before the establishment of the papacy, the teachings of heathen philosophers had received attention and exerted an influence in the church. Many who professed conversion still clung to the tenets of their pagan philosophy, and not only continued its study themselves, but urged it upon others as a means of extending their influence among the heathen. Serious errors were thus introduced into the Christian faith. Prominent among these was the belief in man’s natural immortality and his consciousness in death. This doctrine laid the foundation upon which Rome established the invocation of saints and the adoration of the virgin Mary. From this sprung also the heresy of eternal torment for the finally impenitent, which was early incorporated into the papal faith.
Then the way was prepared for the introduction of still another invention of paganism, which Rome named purgatory, and employed to terrify the credulous and superstitious multitudes. By this heresy is affirmed the existence of a place of torment, in which the souls of such as have not merited eternal damnation are to suffer punishment for their sins, and from which, when freed from impurity, they are admitted to Heaven.
Still another fabrication was needed to enable Rome to profit by the fears and the vices of her adherents. This was supplied by the doctrine of indulgences. Full remission of sins, past, present, and future, and release from all the pains and penalties incurred, were promised to all who would enlist in the pontiff’s wars to extend his temporal dominion, to punish his enemies, or to exterminate those who dared deny his spiritual supremacy. The people were also taught that by the payment of money to the church they might free themselves from sin, and also release the souls of their deceased friends who were confined in the tormenting flames. By such means did Rome fill her coffers, and sustain the magnificence, luxury, and vice of the pretended representatives of Him who had not where to lay his head.

The scriptural ordinance of the Lord’s supper had been supplanted by the idolatrous sacrifice of the mass. Papist priests pretended, by their senseless mummery, to convert the simple bread and wine into the actual body and blood of Christ. With blasphemous presumption, they openly claimed the power of “creating God, the Creator of all things.” All Christians were required, on pain of death, to avow their faith in this horrible, Heaven-insulting heresy. Multitudes who refused were given to the flames.

In the thirteenth century was established that most terrible of all the engines of the papacy,—the Inquisition. The prince of darkness wrought with the leaders of the papal hierarchy. In their secret councils, Satan and his angels controlled the minds of evil men, while unseen in the midst stood an angel of God, taking the fearful record of their iniquitous decrees, and writing the history of deeds too horrible to appear to human eyes. “Babylon the great” was “drunken with the blood of the saints.” The mangled forms of millions of martyrs cried to God for vengeance upon that apostate power.
Popery had become the world’s despot. Kings and emperors bowed to the decrees of the Roman pontiff. The destinies of men, both for time and for eternity, seemed under his control. For hundreds of years the doctrines of Rome had been extensively and implicitly received, its rites reverently performed, its festivals generally observed. Its clergy were honored and liberally sustained. Never since has the Roman Church attained to greater dignity, magnificence, or power.

The noontide of the papacy was the world’s moral midnight. The Holy Scriptures were almost unknown, not only to the people, but to the priests. Like the Pharisees of old, the papist leaders hated the light which would reveal their sins. God’s law, the standard of righteousness, having been removed, they exercised power without limit, and practiced vice without restraint. Fraud, avarice, and profligacy prevailed. Men shrank from no crime by which they could gain wealth or position. The palaces of popes and prelates were scenes of the vilest debauchery. Some of the reigning pontiffs were guilty of crimes so revolting that secular rulers endeavored to depose these dignitaries of the church as monsters too vile to be tolerated. For centuries Europe had made no progress in learning, arts, or civilization. A moral and intellectual paralysis had fallen upon Christendom.
       The condition of the world under the Romish power presented a fearful and striking fulfillment of the words of the prophet Hosea: “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge; because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee; ... seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children.” “There is no truth, nor mercy, nor knowledge of God in the land. By swearing, and lying, and killing, and stealing, and committing adultery, they break out, and blood toucheth blood.” [Hosea 4:6, 1, 2.] Such were the results of banishing the Word of God.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

WHAT IS LOVE? HAPPILY MARRIED PEOPLE SAY IT IS

Well, unhappily married people would say it's that "magic" feeling that "just happens" between two people... it's not something you can consciously create... it's that "spark" that's either there or it isn't.

And, with a definition like that, you know WHY these people are unhappily married.

Love is the thing that people want more than anything else in life... and unhappily married people have defined it as something that's completely outside of their control.

They've defined it as a WHIM that can come AND go... it's something that's unbelievably exciting when it's there and intolerable when it's not... and they are literally wrecking their lives trying to find and "pin down" this elusive feeling.

For people who are unhappily married, love is something to "GET" from others.

In complete and total contrast, happily married people define love as a feeling that is subject to their thoughts... thoughts produce feelings... and therefore, to produce the feelings one wants is as simple as having the right kinds of thoughts.

Moreover, in the view of happily married people, love is something that a person receives IN KIND!

In other words, one doesn't try to GET love from others... rather they GIVE love to others WITH JOY AND PLEASURE which inspires others to GIVE love back.

While unhappily married people take the "hard" route of bending over backwards to GET love... and rarely ever reaching it... happily married people take the "easy" route by bending forward and GIVING it to their spouse and everyone around them... and love EASILY comes back to them.

Moreover, love is deciding that one's spouse HAS value and being committed to showing, expressing, and articulating that value in as many ways as possible.

As you consider that, perhaps the elusive secret to a happy marriage really is as simple as consciously deciding to consistently put intention, attention, and effort towards HAVING a happy marriage.

That's not very hard and yet so many people's behavior indicates that they think a good marriage is just a matter of happenstance. It's like they think their marriage is a "thing" like their car or home or watch. But, it most definitely is not.

Your marriage is something that you and your spouse are DOING. And, by looking at the level of happiness, satisfaction, and pleasure that's in your marriage, you can tell how well the two of you are DOING your marriage.

Do you like the results of what the two of you are doing? If not, then maybe it's time to learn what happily married people do so that you can do what they do and get the results they get.

Learn the secrets and patterns of happily married people. Find out what they do... how they think... their viewpoint... their feelings... everything... and it's all packaged up as a "model" that you and your spouse can easily "install" in your own marriage and thereby get the same happy marriage result that happily married people have.

Saturday, September 21, 2013

A MAGIC SECRET FOR MEN

I’m going to share a MAGIC MARRIAGE SECRET with you. Keep reading to discover it…

If I asked you what a team is, you would probably answer me with something like, “A team is a group of people aligned on the same “side”…a group of people who are associated together for some common cause, purpose, or action.”

If I asked you what teamwork is, you would probably answer me with something like, “Teamwork is when a group of people coordinate and cooperate harmoniously…it’s when a group of people work together and support each other…in order to achieve a common goal.”

But, if I asked this question:

“Are you and your wife REALLY a team?”

Or, if I asked you:

“How much teamwork is there between you and your wife?”

What would YOUR honest and truthful answers be to these questions?

If I was face to face with you right now, would you be “dropping your eyes” because of the truth?

Are you and your wife on the same “side”? Or, are the two of you disconnected individuals? Even worse, does it seem like the two of you are on opposing sides more often than not?

Are you and your wife aligned and associated in love, companionship, fellowship, enjoyment, care, concern, support, respect, honor, appreciation, affection, and intimacy?

Are you and your wife REALLY “for” each other?

Or, do you and your wife primarily cohabitate as neutral and platonic roommates? In effect, are you and your wife two people whose “deepest connection” is sharing the costs and burdens of life…instead of the joy and intimacy of lovers?

Sadly, too many men are in a relationship with a woman that they “love”…but their relationship is SO DISSATISFYING…and it doesn’t have to be this way. A man really CAN take the lead and create a happy, affectionate, and intimate marriage relationship with his wife.

Do you realize how wonderful…and how priceless…it is to be in a marriage that REALLY IS a team? Well, I can tell you from first-hand experience, it is well worth the effort and the expense to create a happy, harmonious, aligned, affectionate, and intimate MARRIAGE TEAM!

And, my hope is that as you are reading this, you begin to feel such a level of encouragement and inspiration that you start arranging you and your wife into a team…and orchestrating teamwork between the two of you.

This brings us to the MAGIC MARRIAGE SECRET…

Teamwork is NOT where you get to be the “quarterback” of the team and your wife gets to be the “water-boy” and “chore-boy” (just as it’s NOT you being the “water-boy” / “chore-boy” for your wife either). Teamwork…in a marriage relationship…is SHARING what you have…that is good…that is best…that is important…that is valuable…that is desired…with your wife…and vice versa. It’s making your wife a “star” who “wins”…while your wife strives equally to make you a “star” who “wins”.

Now, what makes this a MAGIC MARRIAGE SECRET?

Well, when you consider that the unhappily married MAJORITY of men do the exact opposite…they direct and channel their energy and effort so that THEY get to be the “star”…THEY want to be the “winner”. They want what is good, best, important, valuable, and desired for themselves. And, their mode of operation conveys the belief that in order for them to be the “star” and the “winner”, they must ONE-UP their wife…they must rise ABOVE her…they must assert themselves OVER her…and push her DOWN…they have to get the good BEFORE she does…or at least as much of it as they can…or she’ll take it all for herself…and leave them with nothing.

Apparently, the idea that BOTH they AND their wife can be a “star” and a “winner” at the same time…that they can BOTH SHARE AND ENJOY that which is good, best, important, valuable, and desired…is unfathomable to them.

Now, couple this with the fact that the unhappily married MAJORITY of women are doing the SAME THING…they are trying to be the “star” and the “winner”…they are trying to get all the good…at the expense of their husband…and you can begin to realize…

This notion of marriage teamwork…this notion of sharing a part of what you have…a part that is GOOD…is a SECRET…and as soon as you apply it to your MARRIAGE…and inspire your wife to do the same…you will find that it works MAGIC!

Now, really personalize this concept. Within your marriage, when it comes to money, time, chores, enjoyment/fun, and all the other things that are important to a person, are you manipulating things so that you GET the best for yourself (even if it means your wife gets less or none)…or are you striving to GIVE the best to your wife…so that you inspire her to GIVE the best to you…so that you BOTH are blessed in your marriage?

How does a husband or wife know if they are in a sexless marriage?

Are you in a sexless marriage if you and your partner have sex once a month? Once every two months? Twice a year? What determines if a marriage is a “sexless” marriage?

Well, I hear other people waffling around this question without really answering it…so I’m going to step out and tell you the answer plainly…

If you and your spouse do not purposely find a way to express yourselves sexually WITH each other at LEAST once a week…once every 7 days, THEN YOU ARE IN A SEXLESS MARRIAGE.

Now, I can hear the gasps and whistles and see the eyebrows rising…but here’s the truth…married couples who are in a TRULY happy marriage…one where BOTH the husband AND the wife are genuinely happy…join together in sexual expression AT LEAST 2 – 3 times a week.

Even when happily married couples are separated…perhaps by business travel…or away caring for a family member in need of assistance…they STILL express their sexuality together over the phone or by video.

(Note: Typically, in a sexless marriage, there is one person who wants sex and one person who does not. I’m going to speak towards the person who does not want sex in the remainder of this article.)

So, continuing on…you might say that you are truly happily married and you don’t have sex 2 – 3 times a week…well, I promise you, if your spouse was to expose the truth, THEY ARE NOT HAPPY with YOU!!!

But, in all honesty, if you aren’t having sex 2 – 3 times a week…if you aren’t sexually expressing yourself with someone who wants you to express yourself with them and vice versa, then YOU AREN’T HAPPY ABOUT IT EITHER!

You might say you are…but that’s an excuse…it’s a cover up…you are lying to yourself and to others.

I don’t care what you “claim”, nobody in their right mind starts into life with dreams of living a platonic, passionless, straight-laced, boring-but-safe-and-secure life. Nobody dreams of living their life with a friendly “roommate”. Nobody…and that includes you!

Nobody is interested in watching a movie about two adult people living a nice, quiet, safe, secure, passionless, sexless life that’s void of all excitement. Nobody wants to watch a movie about two dull, dreary people who get up in the morning…all civil and courteous and friendly in their short, shallow, information-only conversations…and then go to their jobs…only to come home and continue in the same monotonous pattern.

And, if you aren’t interested in watching a movie of your life, then you are NOT truly happy about your life…no matter what you say and no matter how much you try to deny it or deceive yourself.

If you are a female, you have NEVER ONCE wanted to read a “romance” novel or watch a soap opera about some man and woman living a platonic, amiable, cordial, friendly, but non-intimate, sexless life together. Not once!

But, people always have their excuses…

They say, “Well, we would do more fun and exciting things if we had more money.” Baloney! You want to see some BORED people? Go to Las Vegas…Sin City…Fun Capital of the World…and walk into any Casino, and look at the faces of people playing the games and gambling with their money…and MOST of them will be the face of boredom.

How can that be? It’s because excitement doesn’t come from money. It doesn’t come from a game. It doesn’t come from being in a certain place. It doesn’t come from being with a certain person. Excitement comes from YOU being EAGER to open up your heart, mind, and body…and EAGERLY sharing it with somebody else who is also EAGER to lay out their heart, mind, and body to be shared with you.

And, when you do this within the God-approved, God-ordained structure of a private marriage relationship, that is when real excitement happens!

And, what better way to lay out hearts, minds, and bodies than to be intimate and sexual with your partner…and them with you? The answer is that there is no better way. That’s why God created sex for married people. If yadi-yadi-blah-blah was a better way, God would have created yadi-yadi-blah-blah — but He didn’t! He created SEX!

The problem is though, people let the fears, insecurities, and offenses they feel in relation to their spouse BLOCK them from laying out their heart, mind, and body…or they use their heart, mind, and body as a bargaining chip for usurping and retaining control over their spouse…and NEITHER of these will make you happy if you engage in them.

I promise you, if you are a husband or wife who habitually withholds sex from your spouse for weeks or months, YOU are NOT a happy person.

So why would you do this?

Why would you even play a game where YOU lose twice? And you DO lose twice…you lose out on the joy and excitement of intimacy now…and you lose out when your spouse finally gets fed up with your game playing and divorces you or cheats on you.

Why would you short-change yourself of satisfaction, fulfillment, enjoyment, and excitement? It’s for sure you wouldn’t let somebody else try to shortchange you of these things…so why would you do it to yourself?

And really, being a non-sexual person is an acute case of dishonesty. You are dishonestly cheating yourself and you are dishonestly defrauding your spouse.

Another excuse…

“It’s my spouse’s fault! He/She ...”

I’m sure your spouse has their faults and wrong-doings…just as you do…but while you are condemning and judging your spouse…instead of opening your heart, mind, and body to them…while you are trying to “get back at them” in whatever way you are trying to do that, you are once again short-changing your own happiness.

The fact is, if you are not CONTRIBUTING to your and your spouse’s “environment”…if you are not being CONDUCIVE to an exciting relationship, then YOU are the block and the hindrance. If you aren’t ACTIVELY HELPING, SUPPORTING, AND ENCOURAGING your spouse to be successful with you…then YOU are the roadblock to YOUR happiness in life.

And, you ARE hurting yourself more than you are hurting your spouse. Yes it hurts your spouse when you won’t participate and cooperate and have a fun, exciting relationship with them…but they will EVENTUALLY get all of that with or without you.

Wouldn’t it just be easier to decide that they CAN HAVE that fun, exciting, and sexual relationship WITH YOU instead of WITHOUT you?

Now, I have no doubt that I’ve stirred your thoughts and feelings. So, take that first step towards opening your heart, mind, and body.

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Do These and Have a Happier Marriage Tonight


1. Be loving enough to INSPIRE your spouse to be loving.

2. What seems natural to you as a lover probably doesn’t work the best for your spouse. In fact, it may well be the case that your spouse wants nearly the opposite of what you’re doing…or at the very least, something different.

3. Be bold enough to ask questions about what pleases your spouse…and really listen this time…instead of just hearing what you want to hear…and then be bold enough to give your spouse what they find pleasing.

4. Be bold enough to inform your spouse of what pleases you.

5. Your spouse has certain things they are focused on, responsible for, and interested in besides you. This doesn’t mean you are unimportant to them…it means they need you to help them set those things aside for a moment and “settle down”, relax, and reconnect with you.

6. Set aside neediness, insecurity, jealousy, and other such negative mentalities…they are repulsive…they are the antithesis of happiness.

7. You NEVER lose anything or have less when you GIVE something out of love and care. It will, in time, ALWAYS return to you multiplied and increased from some source…known or unknown…expected or unexpected.

8. Yes, your spouse probably wants what you think they want…and when you just give them what they want…with gratitude that you can even give it to them…it will really fan the flames of their love for you.

9. There are also some things your spouse wants that you are NOT thinking about. And when you start thinking about those things…and GIVE them…it really fans the flames of their love for you.

10. Be HAPPY to GIVE your spouse what THEY want…instead of what you want. Your spouse wants you to care enough about them to GIVE them what they want…not what you think they want…or even worse, what you “want” them to want.

This is a critically important point that escapes most people…in many cases, a person “says” they are doing something for their spouse when in reality, they are doing it for themselves.

So, just becoming aware of WHO you are doing something for…yourself or your spouse…and communicating accordingly…can clear up a lot of issues and problems.

For instance, when you are supposed to be touching your spouse in a way that escalates THEIR pleasure…when the context is about ramping up your spouse’s pleasure…but you are actually touching them in a way that escalates YOUR pleasure…it IS frustrating and irritating to your spouse…and will cause them to resist and reject your touch.

The maxim therefore is this: Give when you are supposed to be giving and receive when it’s clear that you are in receive mode.

11. The good that you see in your spouse is a reflection of YOUR good.

12. The bad that you see in your spouse is a reflection of YOUR bad. Any married person can see the selfish, inconsiderate, disrespectful, non-loving aspects of their spouse…and if they’ll open up and get honest and real, they’ll see those same unwanted, unpleasant aspects in themselves.

Moreover, if they’ll eliminate those unwanted, unpleasant aspects in themselves, it will have the miraculous effect of eliminating them in their spouse too.

13. No matter how many times you’ve said it, your spouse STILL likes to hear that you love them and care about them. No matter how many nice things you’ve done in the past, your spouse STILL likes for you to do nice things for them. Bottom line, your spouse STILL likes to know that you REALLY care about them MORE than anything else.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

ANGELS AND YOU—A BRIEF OVER VIEW

The connection of the visible with the invisible world, the ministration of angels of God, and the agency of evil spirits, are plainly revealed in the Scriptures, and inseparably interwoven with human history.
Before the creation of man, angels were in existence; for when the foundations of the earth were laid, “the morning stars sang together, and all the sons of God shouted for joy.” Job 38:7.... Angels are in nature superior to men, for the psalmist says that man was made “a little lower than the angels.” Psalm 8:5.

The Number and Power of Angels

We are informed in Scripture as to the number, and the power and glory, of the heavenly beings, of their connection with the government of God, and also of their relation to the work of redemption. “The Lord hath prepared His throne in the heavens; and His kingdom ruleth over all.” And, says the prophet, “I heard the voice of many angels round about the throne.” In the presence chamber of the King of kings they wait—“angels, that excel in strength,” “ministers of His, that do His pleasure,” “hearkening unto the voice of His word.” Psalm 103:19-21; Revelation 5:11. TA 9.3
Ten thousand times ten thousand and thousands of thousands, were the heavenly messengers beheld by the prophet Daniel. The apostle Paul declared them “an innumerable company.” Daniel 7:10; Hebrews 12:22. As God’s messengers they go forth, like “the appearance of a flash of lightning,” (Ezekiel 1:14), so dazzling their glory, and so swift their flight. The angel that appeared at the Saviour’s tomb, his countenance “like lightning, and his raiment white as snow,” caused the keepers for fear of him to quake, and they “became as dead men.” Matthew 28:3, 4.
When Sennacherib, the haughty Assyrian, reproached and blasphemed God, and threatened Israel with destruction, “it came to pass that night, that the angel of the Lord went out, and smote in the camp of the Assyrians an hundred fourscore and five thousand.” There were “cut off all the mighty men of valor, and the leaders and captains,” from the army of Sennacherib. “So he returned with shame of face to his own land.” 2 Kings 19:35; 2 Chronicles 32:21.

Angels Help God’s Children

Angels are sent on missions of mercy to the children of God. To Abraham, with promises of blessing; to the gates of Sodom, to rescue righteous Lot from its fiery doom; to Elijah, as he was about to perish from weariness and hunger in the desert; to Elisha, with chariots and horses of fire surrounding the little town where he was shut in by his foes; to Daniel, while seeking divine wisdom in the court of a heathen king, or abandoned to become the lions’ prey; to Peter, doomed to death in Herod’s dungeon; to the prisoners at Philippi; to Paul and His companions in the night of tempest on the sea; to open the mind of Cornelius to receive the gospel; to dispatch Peter with the message of salvation to the Gentile stranger—thus holy angels have, in all ages, ministered to God’s people.
Thus God’s people, exposed to the deceptive power and unsleeping malice of the prince of darkness, and in conflict with all the forces of evil, are assured of the unceasing guardianship of heavenly angels. Nor is such assurance given without need. If God has granted to His children promise of grace and protection, it is because there are mighty agencies of evil to be met—agencies numerous, determined, and untiring, of whose malignity and power none can safely be ignorant or unheeding.

Satan and Evil Angels

Evil spirits, in the beginning created sinless, were equal in nature, power, and glory with the holy beings that are now God’s messengers. But fallen through sin, they are leagued together for the dishonor of God and the destruction of men. United with Satan in his rebellion, and with him cast out from heaven, they have, through all succeeding ages, cooperated with him in his warfare against the divine authority. We are told in Scripture of their confederacy and government, of their various orders, of their intelligence and subtlety, and of their malicious designs against the peace and happiness of men.
None are in greater danger from the influence of evil spirits than those who, notwithstanding the direct and ample testimony of the Scriptures, deny the existence and agency of the devil and his angels. So long as we are ignorant of their wiles, they have almost inconceivable advantage; many give heed to their suggestions while they suppose themselves to be following the dictates of their own wisdom. This is why, as we approach the close of time, when Satan is to work with greatest power to deceive and destroy, he spreads everywhere the belief that he does not exist. It is his policy to conceal himself and his manner of working.
It is because he has masked himself with consummate skill that the question is so widely asked: “Does such a being really exist?” It is an evidence of his success that theories giving the lie to the plainest testimony of the Scriptures are so generally received in the religious world. And it is because Satan can most readily control the minds of those who are unconscious of his influence, that the Word of God gives us so many examples of his malignant work, unveiling before us his secret forces, and thus placing us on our guard against his assaults.

Christ’s Followers Are Safe

The power and malice of Satan and his host might justly alarm us were it not that we may find shelter and deliverance in the superior power of our Redeemer. We carefully secure our houses with bolts and locks to protect our property and our lives from evil men; but we seldom think of the evil angels who are constantly seeking access to us, and against whose attacks we have, in our own strength, no method of defense. If permitted, they can distract our minds, disorder and torment our bodies, destroy our possessions and our lives. Their only delight is in misery and destruction.

Fearful is the condition of those who resist the divine claims and yield to Satan’s temptations, until God gives them up to the control of evil spirits. But those who follow Christ are ever safe under His watchcare. Angels that excel in strength are sent from heaven to protect them. The wicked one cannot break through the guard which God has stationed about His people.

Sunday, September 15, 2013

COMMUNICATION - A LOVING EXCHANGE


And the Lord God said, It is not good that man should be alone. I will make him someone to talk to. Genesis 2:18.

God created us to talk to each other. There is a desire within every person to share his or her greatest dreams, deepest desires, innermost thoughts and heartfelt needs. When a wife says to her husband, “Talk to me!” she is pleading for intimacy. She wants him to share from his heart. And she also wants him to listen.Every relationship needs open communication. It’s a primary way we can walk in the love commandment—but it takes effort. Unfortunately, it’s an effort many couples don’t make. A recent report showed that 86 percent of the divorced couples surveyed believed their marriages failed due to a lack of communication.Successful families don’t just happen. They are the result of investments of time, effort, study and practice. Effective communication is one of the essential skills every family needs. It involves not only knowing how to talk to each other, but also knowing how to walk in love. The foundation scripture for our lives is: “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets” (Matthew 22:37-40).Your neighbor includes the person closest to you. Loving your neighbor begins at home by loving those you are in contact with every day.

God’s Communication Plan

God planned for couples to live with and love each other. He didn’t intend for them to merely put up with each other. Colossians 3:18-21 gives us specific instructions about how families are to function in love. It says: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them. Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is wellpleasing unto the Lord. Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.”Let’s examine what we are saying, and the way we are saying it. Are we harsh and critical? Or are we speaking words of encouragement, life and love?God cares about how we talk to each other. I Peter 3:8-10 says: “Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous: not rendering evil for evil, or railing for railing: but contrariwise blessing; knowing that ye are thereunto called, that ye should inherit a blessing. For he that will love life, and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips that they speak no guile.”Verse 9 in The Amplified Bible says, “Never return evil for evil or insult for insult (scolding, tongue-lashing, berating), but on the contrary blessing….”Arguing and yelling are not acceptable forms of communication—neither is silence. I believe this kind of communication is what Ephesians 4:29 calls “corrupt communication.” God’s plan is for us to talk to each other and communicate in love.

Good Words Make Good Families

Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.” We have a responsibility to draw out the best in each other. One of the major ways that happens is through quality, loving communication.Proverbs 15:23 tells us, “A man hath joy by the answer of his mouth: and a word spoken in due season, how good is it!” When we speak thoughtful, well-timed words to each other, we produce and reap joy!The Bible also talks about the effect of bad words and attitudes. Proverbs 21:9 in The Amplified Bible says, “It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop…than in a house shared with a nagging, quarrelsome, and faultfinding woman [or man!].” Negative attitudes and behavior will crush the spirit of a marriage or a relationship. Positive words will nurture our marriages and families. Proverbs 25:11 says, “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.”

Families thrive in an environment where healthy communication is practiced.

You Can’t Communicate by OsmosisWe must work at communication. It doesn’t happen byosmosis, which is defined as “a gradual, unconscious process of assimilation or absorption.” That is not how we understand what another person is feeling or thinking. No, we have to talk to each other.

Husbands and wives, I know this can be difficult at first if you are not in the habit of doing it. But to have a healthy relationship, you must make time to sit down and have eye-to-eye contact. Forget past failed experiences where communication is concerned. Determine to pull down the walls between you by being willing to talk and patiently listen.Here are three tips on how to become a better listener:

Pay attention

Don’t interrupt

Respond in love

An interesting statistic reveals that women speak approximately 25,000 words a day, while men only speak 10,000-12,000 words. It’s easier for women to talk. Men often have trouble listening as well as expressing themselves. Given these facts, it’s easy to see why couples must work at communication.Effective communication occurs because of a deliberate, conscious decision to respectfully talk to each other. You must not argue or yell. Harsh, critical words cause a person to shut down on the inside.

A husband and wife can experience days of heaven on earth when they choose to communicate in love. It’s worth the effort it takes to develop this skill!This confession can help you get started. Say: I make a deliberate, conscious decision that we are going to have quality, loving communication in our home.

Quality, loving communication is a heartfelt dialogue. It’s two people sharing their thoughts, desires, feelings, experiences, observations, dreams and ideas with each other in a safe, non-threatening, non-hostile, friendly environment.Communication is an exchange—not a monologue.

Each person feels as though what they have to say is valid, important and respected when this kind of communication takes place.So talk, listen and respond in love!

FORGIVE, FORGET AND BE BLESSED

One of the greatest acts of God’s love is to forgive in the midst of personal conflict and walk in harmony in the midst of strife. We have the ability to operate with the highest form of faith just by following the outline Jesus has given us in the Word.I want to share with you the power God has given to us when we walk in the light of forgiveness. 

As we look at the Word together we will see, beyond any doubt, that there is a very close relationship between forgiveness and the love of God.

Mark 11:22-24 has got to be the most well-known scripture reference there is on the subject of faith. Jesus is teaching about the God kind of faith and how it operates.

He says: Have faith in God. For verily I say unto you, That whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith. Therefore, I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.Let’s read on. I want to focus attention on His words in verses 25 and 26. And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any; that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. But if ye do not forgive, neiher will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.Jesus makes the act of forgiveness an integral part of the faith life. In verse 26 He very plainly states a spiritual law: If you do not forgive, then your Father in heaven will not forgive you. This ties in closely with His teaching in the 18th chapter of Matthew where He explains to His disciples about the power of agreement.

Matthew 18:19 says,Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.The Amplified translation says, …if two of you on earth agree (harmonize together, together make a symphony)….Jesus places a tremendous importance on harmony and agreement between believers and forgiveness plays a vital part in that harmony. When Peter asks Jesus how many times he should forgive his brother, Jesus answers, Until seventy times seven. (That Isaiah 490 times!)

Then He relates a parable in Matthew 18:23-35. (Get your Bible and read those verses now to get them fresh in your mind and spirit.) A servant owes his lord a debt equivalent to millions of dollars today. Though he is forgiven of that large debt, he goes out and refuses to forgive a fellowservant of only a 15 cent debt! When the Lord hears about it, He delivers that servant to the tormentors. Verse 32 says He called that servant a wicked servant. God looks at unforgiveness as wickedness.This parable shows the consequences of walking in unforgiveness. The servant was forgiven of a large debt, but then would not release his fellowservant of small, insignificant debt. His attitude of unforgiveness cost him much more than the debt he owed.There can be no room in our lives for unforgiveness. When a believer is unwilling to forgive, he puts himself automatically in a position where Satan can torment and attack him. I want you to realize it was only a 15 cent debt that caused that servant to be tormented. It is the little 15 cent debts we tend to overlook. If someone does or says something to you that hurts, you usually try to shrug it off; but that is the kind of thing that Satan will try to take advantage of. The little 15 cent debts we don’t forgive are what gives Satan place in our lives—the small things we do and say, the cutting words and unkind remarks. Many times these things occur with people in the world that we don’t know personally, so these incidents of aggravation, etc., are easily forgotten and never forgiven. These things may look unimportant, but remember: We are commissioned to take the message of forgiveness to the world (II Corinthians 5:18,19), not take it from them. God has forgiven us of a life of sin, yet we hold little things against each other.As I was praying about this, the Spirit of God showed me what happens when we allow unforgiveness to build up in our spirits. I saw a pipe stretching between God and myself. The pipe was a funnel for the power of God. At God’s end, the power was flooding in, but at my end, there was only a trickle coming out. Something was clogging the pipe somewhere along the way. The Spirit of God showed me that unforgiveness was stopping the flow of God’s power. Those little 15 cent debts had been like silt—tiny bits of dirt and filth—that had built up a wall inside the pipe. When I recognized that, I quickly repented and allowed the Holy Spirit to purge my spirit of the unforgiveness and clean out the pipe so God’s power could flow unhindered.Jesus knew the importance of forgiveness and that is why He connected it so closely with the operation of faith in Mark 11. Faith will not work in an unforgiving heart. Galatians 5:6 says that faith works by love. If you are holding anything against another person, then it will hinder your faith. By harboring that unforgiveness—no matter how small it may seem—you literally tie God’s hands. Remember, Jesus said, But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses. This is spiritual law. You can’t make it without His forgiveness!We are instructed to forgive one another even as God has forgiven us—freely, unconditionally. We are to forgive with grace, undeserved favor, and blessing. Love takes no account of evil done to it—pays no attention to a suffered wrong (I Corinthians 13:5,Amplified Bible). Jesus said, But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven (Matthew 5:44,45).

The things that people do or say to you can get close enough to hurt you only if you act out of love yourself. If you resent and hold an offence against someone, it injures you. Unforgiveness, like strife, is a thief that cometh but for to kill, to steal, and to destroy. It holds you in bondage and renders your prayer life powerless.Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.Luke 6:37 The Expository Dictionary of New Testament Words by W. E. Vine states that the word translated forgive means “to loose from, to release.” This scripture is saying, “Loose, and you will be loosed.”When you forgive as God forgives, you let that person go free from the transgression. You release him from guilt, unconditionally. You let go of any resentment against him. It is as though it never happened. Refuse to hold anything against him even if Satan continues to bring it to your mind. No doubt he will; Paul told the Corinthians to forgive lest Satan gain the advantage over them (II Corinthians 2:7-11). Unforgiveness gives Satan the advantage. Refuse to dwell on it in your thought life again because you have forgiven him as God has forgiven you.To forgive others as God forgives us requires an act of faith. God’s forgiveness is the supernatural ability to totally eradicate from your consciousness any thought or memory of an incident.There is a realm of forgiveness that every believer can walk in. It cannot be done through your own natural ability. It is a supernatural act in which you exercise your faith, the love of God and the power of forgiveness until that incident is completely and totally eradicated from your consciousness just as it is from God’s. Every believer must learn how to live and walk in that realm of forgiveness.And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses (Mark 11:25, 26).

Make the quality decision to forgive as an act of your will. Jesus said forgive “when you stand.” You cannot stand for a month or even for a week. When you forgive, you give up resentment against another—that only takes a moment. You are forgiving in obedience to God’s Word; you are acting in faith on His Word. You are going free.When you refuse to forgive, you close the door to forgiveness from the Father but when you forgive, you will be forgiven by the Father. When you have God’s forgiveness, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks.When you forgive, you not only free the other person but you also free yourself from unforgiveness and strife.Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God (II Corinthians 7:1).

You have cleansed yourself from strife, unforgiveness, and the other enemies of love. Now that you recognize the evil works of these tools of Satan, refuse to give them place in your life. Stay cleansed of them and allow the love of God to work in you unhindered.II Timothy 2:19-21 says,But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour. If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master’s use, and prepared unto every good work.It is so important to have a forgiving heart. In order for us as believers to effectively reach the world with the Gospel—the Good News of Jesus Christ—the power of God must be allowed to flow through us. We cannot be used at best by the Holy Spirit when our spirits are clogged with bitterness and resentment and unforgiveness. This places a serious responsibility on our shoulders.Only when we have forgiving hearts will true harmony come into our homes and bring us into a position of total harmony with God and with one another. The fourth chapter of Ephesians deals with keeping harmony in the body of Christ. I encourage you to spend time meditating on those scriptures and allow them to get down into your spirit. The last verse says, And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.It is time for the body of Christ to come to maturity in this area. We have studied much about how to operate proficiently in faith. Now we must operate just as proficiently in forgiveness and love.What I am sharing with you is spiritual truth. It is totally contrary to the world’s way of thinking and goes against the grain of human behavior. To live and walk in forgiveness, you will have to resist pride. At times, you will have to go to your brother and ask his forgiveness. You will have to forgive him, even though every ounce of your being wants to strike out against him. You will have to forgive others, even as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven you. But remember, you cannot make it without God’s forgiveness. You cannot have His forgiveness unless you forgive.Forgiveness requires an act of your will. You cannot depend on your feelings. Most of the time, you will have to forgive—not because you feel like it—but simply because the Word says you must. Every time it must be an act of faith. It is impossible to please God without faith.It is a simple matter to purge or cleanse your spirit of unforgiveness. You merely have to stand on the Word in faith.Confess the sin of unforgiveness according to I John 1:9.Forgive as an act of your will and obedience; not your feelings. Forgive by faith and God will honor it.Believe that you receive forgiveness and cleansing from all unrighteousness—including any remembrance of being wronged. God’s power is cleansing power. You are forgiven even as He forgave. It will cleanse your consciousness completely.

Praise God and give thanks that it is done. The act of praise is very important. You are a priest of God; you have been purged and cleansed. Now you are in the perfect position to offer a sacrifice of praise unto God. (Hebrews 13:15)If Satan brings a symptom of unforgiveness to you, resist him by saying, “No, I have already forgiven that person by faith and I have received my forgiveness according to God’s Word. I refuse to remember.”Standing by faith in this area is the same as any other. Don’t be moved by what you see or feel.
Make it your goal to develop and maintain an attitude of forgiveness. See that you keep your heart clean before God. Be quick to repent when you are faced with opportunities for strife. Don’t allow Satan any place in your life.Use this confession of God’s Word to activate the power of love and forgiveness. Close all doors to Satan. Keep the pipe clean and the power of God flowing!“Father, in the Name of Jesus, I make a fresh commitment to You to live in peace and harmony—not only with my brothers and sisters in the body of Christ, but with my friends, associates, neighbors and family.“I let go of all bitterness, resentment, envying, strife, and unkindness in any form. I give no place to the devil, in Jesus’ name.“Now, Father, I ask Your forgiveness. By faith I receive it. I am cleansed from all unrighteousness through Jesus Christ. As I forgive and release all who have wronged and hurt me, I ask You to forgive and release them. Deal with them in Your mercy and lovingkindness.“From this moment on, I set myself to walk in love, to seek peace, to live in agreement, and to conduct myself toward others in a manner that is pleasing to You.“It is written in Your Word that the love of God has been shed abroad in my heart by the Holy Ghost. I believe that Your love flows out from me to everyone I come in contact with. In Jesus’ Name, I receive it done. Amen.”Jesus said, A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another (John 13:34-35). The evidence of our dedication to God is the love we have for others. It is that true, pure, unadulterated love of God manifesting itself in our lives that sets us apart from other people.God’s love is the most powerful force in existence.Satan knows that. He knows what the love of God can do and the tremendous power that lies in forgiveness. He learned first-hand just how powerful the love of God is when he faced Jesus of Nazareth 2,000 years ago. At Calvary, what looked like victory to Satan turned out to be the ultimate defeat. Jesus died on the cross, but He didn’t stay dead. Three days later He came up from the grave bringing with Him the keys of death and hell (Revelation 1:18). He stripped Satan of his authority over mankind. He did this because of His great desire toforgive the human race. Having gone through all this to bring forgiveness to us, He sent His Spirit to dwell in us and make us like Him. Then he turned that authority to rule in His name in the earth over to believers—the ones with His power to forgive living in their hearts (Matthew 28:18; Mark 16:15-20). The power of God’s Word and the Holy Spirit enable us to live a life of victory through His love.A revelation of the love walk and forgiveness in our spirits allows that power to flow. Make the quality decision today to commit yourself to God’s Word concerning love and forgiveness. I guarantee…you will never be the same.Praise God!